The worst thing you can do when you’re with someone is to put their flaws over their attributes. That is not to say to totally omit their flaws in view them as a perfect individual but acknowledging them and focusing on them are two totally different ideas. Acknowledging flaws allows you to accept someone for who they are and to decide if they are things you can live with. Focusing on flaws blinds you into thinking that the person will never change and they will be the cause of the termination of the relationship. Furthermore, you can’t expect (expectations lead to disappointments coming soon) someone to be perfect when you yourself are far from it. Many people are unable to see the right one for them because they are too busy looking for this nonexistent “type” that will provide every want and need they have ever desired. But this whole rationale is inconsistent in itself simply because if you aren’t willing or able to do what you are expecting then don’t expect it!! If you can’t love someone despite their flaws then don’t expect anyone to love you despite yours. This song is a pretty good explanation of how things should be. Flaws and all performed by Beyonce’
xoxo
Breeze
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