My mom once told me “You know you’re not superwoman, stop trying to do everything yourself.” This was one of those statements that I ignorantly took as a compliment instead of taking into consideration the connotation in which it was meant. I, along with so many females of this generation, are in the habit of are beginning to take independence to another level. This concept is very understandable to me, however, considering that so many of us are being raised by single mothers. Seeing someone you look up to do everything themselves shapes you into doing the same thing. The independent woman is heavily praised even by musical artists with songs such as “Independent Woman” by Destiny’s Child and most recently “She Got Her Own” by Jamie Foxx. We have come so far from the days of a male-dominated world that we sometimes forget that the other sex exists. Some of us get so wrapped up in obtaining what we need and want ourselves that we regret to acknowledge or accept help from anyone else. Don’t get me wrong because I am definitely the president of the “I can do it myself” club. I would be the one carrying a package all the way to my dorm before asking anyone for help but I am also one to admit when my hard-head is getting is becoming an obstacle for me and other people. It’s important to realize that it is possible to be a strong woman without being a stubborn woman. Never let your pride blind you into thinking that the only person you need in the world is yourself. Realize that being with someone doesn’t mean you have to be submissive but instead consider the possibility of obtaining cooperation. Always be you but don’t confuse stubbornness for strength.
xoxo
Breeze
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